Order of pronouncing permanent marriage
2513.
If a woman and a man themselves want to recite the formula of permanent
marriage, the woman should first say: Zawwajtuka nafsi ‘alas sidaqil
ma’lum (i.e. I have made myself your wife on the agreed Mahr), and then
the man should immediately respond thus: Qabiltut tazwij (i.e. I accept
the marriage). In this way, the marriage contract will be in order. And if
a woman and a man appoint other person to act as their representatives for
pronouncing the formula of marriage, and if, for example, the name of the
man is Ahmad and that of the woman is Fatimah, the representative of the
woman should first say: Zawwajtuka muwakkilaka Ahmad muwakkilati Fatimah
‘alas sidaqil am’lum (i.e. I have given to your client Ahmad in
marriage my client Fatimah on the agreed Mahr) and thereafter the
representative of the man should immediately respond thus: Qabillut
tazwijali Muwakkili Ahmad ‘alas sidaqil ma’lum (that is, I accepted
this matrimonial alliance for my client Ahmad on the agreed Mahr). Now the
marriage contract is in order.